The Profound Impact of the First Years of Life on Adults as Couples and Parents.

Why it is so complicated to maintain a satisfying relationship?
How couplehood is an art, which, starting in infancy continues throughout life in numerous shapes and variations?
Why—when we have finally chosen an appropriate partner or spouse—do we risk spoiling the relationship under the impact of painful childhood experiences?
How can we preserve partnership, happiness and love relations with our partner or spouse?

I am happy and very excited to share with you the “birth” of my book The Enigma of Childhood translated into Chinese.
Hi, I’m Ronnie Solan.
Welcome to my website where you can find information about me and my book. I invite you, the reader, to take part in this journey to discover the secret door which ultimately leads to the solving of this paradoxical enigma. I reveal, step by step, how our decision-making “processor” is actually a product of what I describe as our emotional immune system. The Enigma of Childhood is a book on child psychology for parents, couples and partners — showing that our capacity to be happy and loved depends on our ability to balance the opposing forces of destruction and construction, and mainly to tolerate the otherness of our partners.
Book on Relationship Psychology
The Enigma of Childhood is a book on child development psychology that will help couples and partners understand the inner child psychology and the early memories and their influence on the present relationship. My aim is to allow partners to bridge over the strangeness that we so often feel between one another and find approaches to join each other.


