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  • How to understand our Child’s Constipation?

    ISSN: 2474-7688 PBSIJ.MS.ID.555626 PBSIJ Home How to understand our Child’s Constipation? Ronnie Solan* Submission: April 28, 2017; Published: May 08, 2017 *Corresponding author: Ronnie Solan, Psychoa

  • Upcoming Webinar about Self-Esteem

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  • What is HEALTHY NARCISSISM?

    https://youtu.be/qGsW9VjTaTE The Audiopedia Published on Jun 12, 2017   SUBSCRIBE 40KSUBSCRIBE SUBSCRIBED UNSUBSCRIBE What is HEALTHY NARCISSISM ? What does HEALTHY NARCISSISM mean? HEALTHY NARCI

  • Psychosomatic Disease

    Home › Posts tagged psychosomatic disease Blog Archives Why Psychosomatic Disease is Common in Children We tend to consider our emotional world as separate from our physical world. Being sad is

  • The Healthy Narcissism

    Ronnie Solan Ph.D psychoanalyst-clinical psychologyst-psychotherapist, working with children, adults and couples as well as lecturing I found this Audiopedia to my surprise at the YouTube library conc

  • The Role of Healthy Narcissism in Relating Emotionally to Familiarity and the Unknown

    This journal article by Dr. Ronnie Solan examines the evolutionary and psychological role of healthy narcissism in how we relate emotionally to the familiar and the unknown. Read the full article: The

  • The Role of Healthy Narcissism in Relating Emotionally to Familiarity and the Unknown

    *Published in The Journal of Mental Disorders and Treatment (2016)   Abstract Narcissism is a greatly maligned human characteristic. It’s understandable. Narcissists tend not to consider others’

  • Did you know that behind the pathological narcissism a healthy narcissism is functioning?

    I wish to address myself to you, my professional colleagues, and to share and discuss with you my insightful renewing concepts of the well-known psychological terms, like healthy narcissism, jointness

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  • Upcoming Webinar - Psychoanalytic Insight On Couplehood

    Register Now Monday, Feb, 24, 2020 09.30 AM to 11.30 AM EST Via Live Interactive Webinar ONLY Course Description: Freud never wrote a dedicated book about couples, but some of his most classical insig

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    Healthy Narcissism & Object Relations CORE WELLNESS   ATTACHMENT , PSYCHOANALYSIS Healthy Narcissism: The Emotional Immune System – 2 CE Healthy Narcissism: The Emotional Immune System – 2 CE Dat

  • Crying, smiling, hugging and kissing signal emotional communication

    Crying is one of the primary affective/emotional signals in the oral stage, indicating “minor or major differences” in the baby’s emotional/physical state (for example, hunger, pain, distr

  • Did you know that behind pathological narcissism lies a healthier, functional version?

    " data-userid="691588048438292481" data-orgid="691588048543285248">I wish to address myself to you, my professional colleagues, and to share and discuss with you my insights concerning some well-known

  • Why familiarity is so appealing and strangeness so unbearable?

    Published on January 6, 2018 LinkedIn 22 articles The moment of birth emerges. The baby is born. The parents are so happy. They are delighted that the birth went well, their baby is healthy and all hi

  • Why our childhood leave such an impact on us

    The answer is linked to the fascinating processing of the Narcissism as an Emotional Immune System. My book The Enigma of Childhood - The Profound Impact of the first Years of Life on Adults as Couple

  • Closeness In The Psychoanalytical Encounter

    European Psychoanalytical Federation   Happiness… is a problem of the economics of the individual’s libido. (Freud: Civilization and its Discontents) I am deeply moved and honoured to be re

  • Healthy Narcissism

    Home › Archive for Healthy Narcissism Blog Archives Narcissistic Fragility In The Process Of Befriending The Unfamiliar link to the article

  • WHY ARE WE SO ATTRACTED TO THE FAMILIAR BUT RESIST STRANGENESS?

    Anything identified as unfamiliar is classified as non-self, not-me or strange. Freud (1905b) stressed that recognition of the familiar arouses pleasure. “Minor differences” (Freud, 1930,

  • WHY ARE WE SO ATTRACTED TO THE FAMILIAR BUT RESIST STRANGENESS?

        WHY ARE WE SO ATTRACTED TO THE FAMILIAR BUT RESIST STRANGENESS? Article by: Ronnie Solan As a psychoanalyst I am amazed by the enormous impact of the attraction to the familiar, the resi

  • Familiarity Starts Months Before Birth: The Importance of in Utero Experiences

    An infant is born with a degree of familiarisation with the world that awaits him or her. This sets the stage for the important developmental milestones that will follow. Right from the moment he is b

  • How to Get Your Child to Sleep

    An exhausted mother bathes her child, puts him in comfy pajamas, reads a bedtime story, and gives a final hug before drawing up the blankets. She tucks him in, whispering “night, night,” and tip toes

  • Why do we let Our Harmful Choices Repeat Themselves?

    What a paradox! It is so challenging to become immune to the happiness and love that have emerged from the art of coupelehood and so easy to destroy it due to intolerance to the otherness. The art of

  • How to Handle Toddler Tantrums

    The terrible twos are fraught with toddler tantrums. As a parent, what is the best resolution? Little Luke is two years and six months old. In general, he is a good natured toddler. He has a big smile

  • Stranger anxiety is normal for babies… But how should parents react?

    “Stranger anxiety” is something that we can all relate to. No one ever feels perfectly comfortable when they’re around someone, or in a situation, that they’re unfamiliar with. Babies experience it at

  • Does your toddler want to go it alone? Giving your toddler independence is no easy task

      Your toddler’s independence can come as a major challenge to what you thought you knew. One of the continual trials of parenting is adapting to your child’s ever-changing needs. Just as you’re

  • Anorexia and its Roots in Early Childhood Experience

    Anorexia affects approximately 1% of teenagers, and is more common in females. Aged fourteen, Victoria is showing signs of this affliction. She is reluctant to eat, and is concerned with gaining weigh

  • Book about Parent Psychology

    Book about Parent Psychology - Learn how to understand and your help your child develop coping skills & resolve the conflicts. The Enigma of Childhood is a book about parent psychology that delves dee

  • Book on Child Development Psychology

    The Enigma of Childhood: A Book on Child Development Psychology and on Relationship Psychology ~ By Ronnie Solan The Enigma of Childhood: The Profound Impact of the First Years of Life on Adults as Co

  • Childhood Development: Piaget and Beyond

    *An online course I presented Oct 2016 Piaget’s theory of how our cognitive intelligence develops Freud’s theory of how our emotional life develops Solan’s theory of how our recognition of who are we,

  • Why Diaper Weaning is Essential in the Solidification of Individuation

    * Published in the International Journal of School and Cognitive Psychology (2016)     Abstract This paper explores the importance of diaper weaning, which takes place in a period of life wh

  • How Does Language Develop?

    The Journey From “Media Sensory Communication” Through Monologue Via Dialogue In everyday use, ‘language’ is usually taken to mean that which is spoken aloud. However, we communicate from birth using

  • How to Soothe Your Child’s Fear of Noises

    Does your child have a fear of noises? Laura has recently given birth to her third boy, Tommy. The other two are just three and six years old, and the noise levels would be too much for many mothers t

  • The Importance of Diaper Weaning in Consolidating the Personality

    As parents, it is natural to want to wean your child from diapers as soon as possible. It seems to represent your child’s level of development. The sooner diaper weaning is complete, the better. But a

  • The Leadership Crisis

    From infancy onward we continually accumulate memory traces from all our experiences. We integrate them into a reservoir of perceptions and representations of ourselves and figures important to us (ob

  • The 'No No' Child

    During toddlerhood, children experience increased control and mastery over their own bodies. They also realize that they can manipulate their parents’ emotional reactions and feel empowered and omnipo

  • The Six Steps To Being Happy

    What would you give in exchange for true happiness? Would you believe me if I told you there are some simple steps to being happy? Being happy is one of the most basic human desires. But, no matter wh

  • Why Psychosomatic Disease is Common in Children

    We tend to consider our emotional world as separate from our physical world. Being sad is different to having a stomach bug; emotional pain is different to physical pain. But the reality of psychosoma

  • Book on Relationship Psychology

    The influence of Inner Child on Relationships The Enigma of Childhood is a comprehensive book on relationship psychology that ventures deep into the memories of childhood and the immense influence it

  • Interview by Ruth Shidlo, PhD, SEP

    Dr. Ronnie Solan … treatment Dr. Ronnie Solan is a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst based in Tel Aviv. An expert on the emotional development of the child, she works with children, adoles

  • Stranger Anxiety: When Children Face Strangers

    Stranger Anxiety: When Children Face Strangers This article by Dr. Ronnie Solan explores how and why children develop stranger anxiety — a normal and healthy part of early emotional development. Drawi

  • All of us need to be refueled by love

    I send a virtual hug to you who open now my post. 🤗 All of us need to be refueled by love — by the warmth and familiarity of those dear to us. From the very first moments of life, an infant's sense o